I learned through years of parenting that usually there is one of three things behind a child's tantrum: either they need food, they need sleep or they need love.
That's such a truism for life, really. When I have a hard day, it's generally because I need some rest, but the other two factor in also.
It reminds me of the time Elijah was under the juniper tree. He'd just fled for his life after a seeming spiritual victory (but you note God didn't tell him to do what he did). And there he was, exhausted, asking God to take away his life, he wasn't any different than the others.
Did God do it?
Nope. First he had him sleep. Then he fed him. Then he appeared as the still, small voice and re-energized him. And he gave him a friend in the work, Elisha.
These three things are almost a spiritual law, and I bet the rabbis had a word for it.
What is there about food that represents all the good in life. Is it because it is such a basic need?
Not too long ago I watched a friend invite another to come over. I'll fix you breakfast, she offered. In that simple offering was all the power of providing a few wings in a free fall.
The next time you have a hard day, ask yourself if you are missing one or all of these elements, then try to consciously give them to yourself.
And if you are dealing with a recalcitrant child or some other in your life, you'll find these help also.
I laugh when I think of the truism: the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. There's a reason for that adage, and it applies to more than men.
I think there's something about food disorders that gets back to the base line of love. If you struggle with this, know that you are loved and that you can love. You can rest in that.
Karin
Originally posted 2007-08-04 06:41:07.
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