In the wake of my son, Khabar magazine

by Karin on December 2, 2010 · 0 comments

in Grief, Parenting, Quotations

I've mentioned before how much I like this magazine. An article that touched my heart came from the January issue, In the wake of my son, where the writer speaks of his son in the context of his sudden death at age 22. It offers some of his insights into his grief process. I think it is helpful for anyone who has grieved or is grieving.

Every day brought a different clutter of emotions that came from a kaleidoscope of broken feelings. I traveled through a jungle of changing emotions -- bitterness, grief, anger, guilt, and a myriad of others ...Jayant Kamicheril

And he tells some sweet stories that he remembers of his son who was quite astute as our kids often are. He said he struggled to explain the rationale behind his decision to divorce after a quarter century, and his son helped him with a quirky observation:

Getting married is mostly an irrational decision, but getting divorced is always a rational one. Anand Kamicheril

The article is worth reading.

Karin

Originally posted 2007-03-23 07:12:13.

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